Tree Hugging

True intelligence isn’t something hoarded it’s something revealed over time, layer by layer, as we evolve. The concept of “illumination” of the illuminated ones is not about secret societies controlling knowledge but about the gradual unveiling of wisdom through experience, lineage, and divine timing. Just like a child isn’t given all the knowledge of an adult at once, humanity isn’t given all knowledge at once either. It’s a process. Some truths can only be grasped when we’re ready, and often, they’re hidden in plain sight, waiting for us to reach the level of understanding necessary to see them. Legacy, in this sense, isn’t just about material wealth, it’s about the inheritance of wisdom. What one generation learns, it encodes into the next, not necessarily through words but through energy, choices, and the unseen impact of their existence. We are all part of this ever-evolving tapestry of knowledge, each playing our role in unveiling the mysteries, just as those before us did. It’s a profound realisation, one that aligns with both spiritual and cosmic law. The “All-Seeing Eye” isn’t about surveillance or control, it’s about awareness and understanding perception, and the ability to recognize the patterns of life as they unfold.

Overcoming limerence can be a challenging process, but it’s also an opportunity to reclaim your emotional freedom and grow from the experience. Here’s a structured approach to help you move through and beyond limerence. Acknowledge and Understand It• Recognize that limerence is not love, but rather an obsessive fixation that often thrives on uncertainty and fantasy.• Educate yourself about limerence, understanding the psychological mechanisms behind it can help you detach from its grip. Limit Contact with the Limerent Object• Reduce or eliminate contact if possible. This includes in-person interactions, digital communication, and social media.• Avoid behaviors that reinforce the obsession, like checking their profiles, re-reading old messages, or analyzing their words or actions. Challenge the Fantasy• Question the idealized image you’ve created of this person. Are they truly as perfect as you imagine? What flaws or incompatibilities are you overlooking?• Reflect on whether your feelings are more about how they make you feel than who they actually are. Re-Focus on Yourself• Address Emotional Needs: Limerence often stems from unmet needs or insecurities. Identify what these might be and work on fulfilling them yourself.• Engage in Self-Care: Exercise, eat healthily, and practice mindfulness to regulate your emotions and calm your mind.• Pursue Your Passions: Dive into hobbies, work, or creative pursuits to redirect your energy toward something meaningful. Build Emotional Awareness• Practice Mindfulness: Stay present and grounded rather than getting lost in daydreams or “what if” scenarios.• Journal: Write down your thoughts and feelings to understand triggers and patterns in your limerence. Strengthen Other Relationships• Invest in your connections with friends, family, and loved ones. This can reduce the intensity of your focus on the limerent object.• Seek new social activities to broaden your network and perspective. Reframe Rejection or Uncertainty• If the feelings are unrequited, remind yourself that their lack of reciprocation does not diminish your worth.• See this experience as an opportunity to grow and learn about yourself, rather than a reflection of failure. Consider Professional Help• If the limerence feels overwhelming or persists for a long time, a therapist can help you explore the underlying causes and develop healthier patterns of attachment. Be Patient with Yourself• Limerence doesn’t disappear overnight. It’s a process of rewiring your brain and emotions, which takes time and consistent effort.• Celebrate small wins, like going a day without obsessing, as signs of progress. Overcoming limerence is not about forgetting the person entirely, but about reclaiming your autonomy, recognizing your own worth, and focusing on building a fulfilling and balanced emotional life. It’s a journey of self-discovery and healing that can lead you to deeper connections and greater peace. I for one ☝️ am so glad I now know what this is I am adding this to my arsenal of tools of empowerment.

There once was an investigator, clever and bright, Who solved every case, from morning to night. But love, oh love, with its cruel, sharp claws, Betrayed his heart without second thought or pause. His spirit was wounded, his trust torn apart, So he left that life with a broken heart. He sought something deeper, a new path to find, A spiritual journey, a quest of the mind. As he searched for the truth, the strangest thing came, The clues all pointed back to his own name. Unraveling a mystery that filled him with dread, He found out, at last, that he was already dead. He’d been investigating, without ever knowing, That he’d left his old life, where death had been showing. His soul had moved on, but he wandered still, In a world that was different, yet eerily still. He wasn’t just lost, but reborn into light, A new life began on that very night. Forever changed by the life he had led, He left behind sorrow and all that he’d bled. Now free from the pain of love’s cruel game, He saw through the illusion, and shed all his shame. No longer a victim, no longer in chains, He walked through this new world where peace now reigns. Reborn as a man with a fresh sense of worth, He realized his death was the key to new birth. The mystery was solved, his heart fully mended, A journey that showed him his life had ascended.